Sunday, 10 November 2013

Change is a beautiful thing

I never used to think this, but now I do. Change is beautiful. Change is what helps us as people to grow and be happy. Every day is a new day, and every day is different. Not one day is the same as the last and this is why we should make the most of every moment. When you're sad or angry, question yourself, ask yourself why are you feeling this way and how could you change it. Ask yourself if right now will matter in a years time? Take a deep breath, wipe those tears and just sit silently for a while until you feel calm and remind yourself that it's okay to cry and let it out but more importantly its okay to smile. Things may not be going your way but persuade yourself that they will. A few weeks ago I had a rough week, I had been at University for 6 weeks, I was missing my family, my friends, my boyfriend, my home but I was okay although I thought I was and then this one week just broke me. So in that one week I sprained my ankle, broke my headphones & laptop charger, came down with so called food poisoning & lots of other little things which at the time truly just made me feel rubbish. They may sound like nothing individually but together they effected me a lot, I was pretty much bed bound from Tuesday to Sunday, either I couldn't walk physically from my ankle or because I was drained. However that was then and this is now. I got past that bad week with determination and support from people I love. I asked myself if in a years time would any of this would matter? And the answer was no. An ankle will mend, food poisoning would go and technology can be replaced. Why dwell on things that soon won't matter or in a years time you'll even remember. Change is a beautiful thing so embrace it. My life has changed massive amounts in the past year but I wouldn't change any of it. I have a boyfriend who I love massive amounts, I'm studying in a city i've always wanted to live in & i'm working towards a dream that is slowly looking more and more possible and this blog is just one way of me tracking my every step. So don't be scared of change. Embrace it.

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