Deep love is better than wide love.

So today I went to the cinema with my best friend Chloe to watch 'The Fault In Our Stars' (which I highly recommend for anyone who likes a good cry) and I was on my way home and some of the messages in the film made me really want to write a blog. So here I am, sat in my newly decorated extra cosy bedroom writing this. This blog begins with an important message, a message I think a lot of people forget, even myself. So I ask you now, is it more important to be loved deeply by an individual/few individuals or loved slightly by many. We often go through life in a battle to impress others, to please others, often forgetting what we have right in front of us. You'll commonly see everyone sharing their lives with others all over Facebook, being proud of what they've got or achieved, and looking for the approval of others. Also known as the 'like' button. This little button does a lot. For instance if you've just shared with all your 'friends' on your Facebook that you are not happy and no one even blinks twice at you and you just get that one person who 'likes this'. But really they're just sharing your misery because they feel the same. My point is we are all far too concerned of what others think of our lives and us. We have to make sure everyone knows that we are 'happy'. But the happiest people tend to be those behind the closed doors not sharing their every moment with their 1000 Facebook 'friends', the ones who are not searching for approval, the ones who are just content with their lives and where they are on their journey. Don't get me wrong I think Facebook is great! I believe it's a good way of keeping in contact with people and it is lovely to share how you are getting on with your friends and sharing pictures. But when it's done for the right reasons. So this leads me back to my key message. We all want to leave a mark on this earth, we all want to be successful and achieve great things. However at the end of the day if we are only loved by a few but those few are our everything and the love is deep, then we should be grateful. Because one deep love is worth much more then the small love of many. And right now I'm learning and understanding that message, if someone loves you, if someone cares for you, they will always be there. And the one’s that are always there will fulfill the love of all those others that walked away and more.